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Monday, September 28, 2009

DESTINATION WEDDINGS: What about Block Island?

Your Welcome reception could look like this: a Lobster Bake Shore Dinner!


Your Rehearsal Dinner could look like this: a sundowner sail on a 50' catamaran!


Your Vows on your big day could look like this: the historic home and lawn of the Sullivan House, overlooking the sea of masts on the Great Salt Pond, and the beaches of the Atlantic.


Your honeymoon night could look like this: a berth on your own sailboat

"on the hook" for complete honeymooning privacy!


There are other inspired destination wedding sites: Caribbean islands, cruise ships, and all kinds of outdoor parks and waterfronts. Check out the sidebars!

Along with Block Island, they all offer remarkable settings, unique cuisines, and exotic atmospheres.

Block Island, alone, though, offers convenience! Reached by 2-hour car (or Amtrak) from NYC and 1-hour ferry ride, Block Island offers the unique feature of an accessible, affordable, and comfortable destination, which is a wonderful feature to be able to offer your elderly, budgeted, or time-strapped guests.

You won't be skimping, though, on your destination wedding, on Block Island! It offers a range of lodging, from budget bunkrooms to gracious victorian guesthouses ...a host of fun from sailing to biking, sunrise kayaking to beach picnicking to gallery nights... and scrumptious foods from homemade custards to fresh-picked island berries to lobster every way, all day.

Tuesday, September 22, 2009

How to eat a Pigeon, Egyptian-Style

You can get Hamam (pigeon) butterflied and grilled, stuffed and baked, or in tagen with tomatoes and rice.

We tried other Egyptian favorites too-- falafels right out of the sidewalk skillet, 2-am snacks at the kebab stand on the corner, and delectably spicy lamb meatballs called koftas. Our favorite meal was the blackened fish, grilled before our eyes in Khan el-Khalili’s farmer’s market.

So it was an ironic coincidence that I tried that Egyptian household favorite, pigeon, in the manicured garden of westernized, 5* Hotel on Zamalek Island, in the heart of the ex-pat district, in the middle of the Nile.

Seated on the umbrella-ed patio, we were delighted to find this revered specialty on the menu. We had read about this local favorite, and had listened patiently for weeks now, to drooling dining tales of our fellow travelers. Now, just hours before our departure, we finally had our chance to try it. We sat making light conversation, enjoying our rare cocktail (liquor is all but prohibited in Cairo), but the whole time, I eyed the other tables, and momentarily wondered why no one – neither the affluent locals families nor the stylish European travelers – was seated before a plate of the Revered Pigeon. Smugly I thought, they just don’t know the good stuff!

And then, with a flourish of my charming Arabic waiter, my much-anticipated entrée arrived… and it looked more like a bat than lunch! Check it out:

I prodded it with my fork—seemed a bit like a tiny game hen. I smelled it - yummy. I examined its shape, with the barely recognizable head and beak grilled intact – no problem. And so, with undaunted zest, I dug in!

Forget game hens! It was more like eating a small lake trout, with tiny needles of bones in every forkful. I worked diligently but was never able to scrounge even a full bite. I snuck in forkfuls of rice, just to keep up the illusion of a normal meal.

Finally, I gave up. How could this possibly be a household staple? Everyone in Cairo would be emaciated!

Only one thing to do! I rolled up my sleeves and picked up the “leg”… recall Tom Hanks in the movie, “BIG”, eating the mini corncob, teeth razoring over the fine edges… that was my pigeon experience!

No worries… I kept working away at it, and soon had a matchstick-esque pile of bones on my plate. That’s when I noticed a pair of coifed and starched Egyptian businessmen at the next table, raising eyebrows and whispering to each other. Clearly, I had taken a social misstep…. Was it wrong to eat food with your hands in Cairo culture?

I tried to “clean up my act’, but finesse as I might, I rather messily – and hungrily – made my way to the bottom of the pigeon. I even sampled the tiny head and beak. Somewhere along the way, I recalled my father’s comments about the similarly slim rewards of “picking” Blue Crabs on the Chesapeake… well, he had no room to complain until he mastered this miniscule meal.

The waiter finally arrived at our table and asked about our meal. Did I feel elated, to have finally tasted the Revered Pigeon? Or was I just plain ornery from frustrated hunger? Clearly, I was shamed by my apparently uncouth table manners. I decided I could trust the waiter, so I confided the scorn of my whispering neighbors.

He literally roared with laughter.

They were not judging my etiquette… they were just wondering what the hell I was doing, picking around the bones. I was supposed to EAT the entire bird, bones and all!

Tuesday, September 8, 2009

HONEYMOONS WORTHY OF YOUR LOVE... Sailing the Nile in a Dahaybieh

If you haven’t thought of a honeymoon in Egypt, think again!

Romancing honeymooners will be in good company.

The corniche along the Nile-front is full of lovers… strolling arm-locked confidantes, whispering pairs on park benches, waterfront patios lined with tables-for-2.

There’s also a love-strewn history, world-famous sights, a unique cuisine, a vibrant rural life unchanged for centuries, an exhilarating urban culture – where else can you find camels on the streets of a capital city?

And the highlight… the life-giving Nile, splitting the Egyptian desert from south to north with a swath of fertile farmland.

You will ride camels, taxis, donkeys, overnight trains, planes, and caleshes (think horse-drawn hacks). But the highlight will be your sail up the Nile in a Dahaybieh.

These grand sailboats, restored from the 1800s, are fabled to be the choice transport of the pharoahs. They are run solely by wind, and their wide red-striped, lateen-rigged sails, on bow and stern, majestically catch the breeze and sweep the dahaybieh past reed islands, herds of water buffalo and riverside temples, up to Aswan. Their broad teak decks are surrounded by low-slung couches encircling silver trays (perfect for middle eastern-style dining), crowned with crystal chandeliers, and staffed by friendly locals who are as dedicated to your service as they are knowledgeable in Egyptology.

Our room had crisp white linens, and a sparkling ensuite bath, with huge casement windows that opened up, only inches from the rippling Nile.

As we meandered down the Nile, exploring the path of the ancient pharaohs and priests, we anchored, just steps away from the famous ruins from 3000 BC. Our days were a mix of lounging on deck with Lucy Duff’s Nile autobiography, and hiking into the desert to see deserted tombs, sugar cane crops, and remote villages. In the late afternoon, we took a dip in the Nile!

But our nights were spectacular… feasts of pigeon (see next week for “how to eat a Pigeon”), fresh fish and honeycake, followed by egyptian rhythms on the oud, and gazing at the powdered-sugar sky of stars.

We even watched the full moon rise over the Nile, FROM OUR BED!

Check out the Dahaybieh slideshow in the sidebar!

Tuesday, September 1, 2009

HONEYMOONS WORTHY OF YOUR LOVE... Mediterranean 'moon


The Mediterranean is home to an epic love affair: Odysseus and Penelope. You, too, can celebrate your love with a Mediterranean ‘moon.

In Greece, wander white-washed villages on desertscaped islands, scattered amid broad blue seas .

Swim in sparkling rocky bays out to sun-warmed rocks, and watch mariners mend their nets on colorful fishing dories, bobbing “on the hook”. Sunset on seawalls, at dinner tables laden with lobster and retsina.

Climb mountainsides on belled donkeys, and join village processions on an island wedding day… here in the Greek Isles.


In Italy, tour the fabled Amalfi coast in your vintage roadster.

Soak in infinity pools overlooking the wide, blue sea.

Meet tailors and antique dealers, potters and painters, and spend lazy afternoons at a local trattoria feast.

Explore the Amalfi trail of old trading days and check out the erotic pictographs in Pompeii. … all here on the Italian Mediterranean.



In Egypt, visit the “pearl” of the Mediterranean, Alexandria.

Home of another famous love pair, Cleopatra and her Anthony, you’ll see their temple, then underwater archeological surprises, mosques, tombs, the bibliotheque, a bustling harbor, a town of colonial architecture, and a Wonder of the Ancient World.

You can venture through the Nile delta, daytrip to Giza’s Great Pyramid of Cheops or Cairo’s Egyptian Museum, and even train further south for the treasures of Luxor and Aswan.

Check in next week for more honeymoon dreaming on Egypt’s famed Nile, romancing on a 19th century dahaybieh.

Tuesday, August 25, 2009

HONEYMOONS WORTHY OF YOUR LOVE... Anse Chastanet and Jade Mountain

Are you dreaming of an island resort, that’s all-inclusive, yet one-of-a-kind?

Here's Anse Chastanet and Jade Mountain, St Lucia’s exclusive creations by Nick Troubetzkoy.

It’s passionate nature…

The architect’s dream was to marry foliage and flowers, perfumes and peaks, sea and bird song.

It’s classic simplicity…

The resort's intimate size ensures that your honeymoon will not be a mass market statistic on your arrival list but that there will be a genuine endeavour by management and staff to provide YOU AND YOUR SPOUSE with the holiday of a lifetime.

It’s remote…

The sign said, “2 miles, Anse Chastanet”, but the potholed dirt road, going straight up cliffs and around hairpin turns, forbidding you to take even a glimpse of the famous Pitons, let you know that you are headed for a decadently secret hideout.

It’s exclusive…

The guard announces your arrival at the understated entrance. You have no idea, that, in store for you, is an exquisitely decorated treehouse, with original oil art and world-renowned views, even from your bed! (Anse Chastanet and Jade Mountain have the singular privilege of Piton views from guestrooms!)

It’s a pristine island playground…

The Soufrieire Marine Sanctuary is an acclaimed snorkel and dive spot. There’s also the Searenity, a 42’ sailboat for sundowner sails, and lots of jungle biking, rainforest crossing, zip-lining, and hiking on the 600-acre estate!

It’s the epitome of haute architecture….

When it comes to lodging, you have “arrived” at Jade Mountain’s Sanctuaries. With more than 2000 square feet completely open to the sky and scene, with 900 square-foot infinity pools right next to your bed that drop you (visually) into the sea, with a clever design that gives you complete exposure yet absolute privacy… Jade Mountain has been declared #1 in the Caribbean, and #3 in the World!

It’s all about peace, tranquility, and romance

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Tuesday, August 18, 2009

HONEYMOONS WORTHY OF YOUR LOVE.... Sandals Luxury-Included Resorts


Savor your morning latte at the Parisian chocolate shop, then strike out on a guided scuba dive. Boat out to the private island for lunch at the Thai hut, followed by a little beach time. Take in a golf clinic, cool off in your private plunge pool, then be escorted to the sunset beach for your candlelit dinner-for-two. Choose from a live reggae band or some casino action, before retiring to the beach to sip champagne under the stars while the steel pannist performs,

AND NEVER TOUCH YOUR WALLET! IT’S ALL INCLUDED!

That is the magic of the Sandal’s philosophy, the “Luxury-Included” Resort for couples in love.

So why chose Sandals above the slew of All-inclusives out there?

Ø Everything’s TRULY included! Want green-fee-free golfing? Like to scuba dive, without tank charges? Looking for your favorite top-shelf mixed drink? Need a wheelchair? A babysitter? Want to dine at your favorite restaurant every night without keeping track? This is the place! No nickel-n-diming like other All-inclusives.

Ø It’s first class, all the way! Sandals has excelled by offering exclusive perks like English butler service, creating intimate dining nooks, designing bedrooms with luxurious linens, and cooperating with celebrity names like Preston Bailey, the Wedding Planner Extraordinaire, to add all the special touches.

Ø Spectacular settings! Whether abutting the historic Pigeon Island of St Lucia, the famous 7-mile Beach of Jamaica, or the stunning Grace Bay (named on Conde Naste’s Top 10 Beaches of the World) on Turks/Caicos, Sandals properties showcase some of the Caribbean’s prime real estate. Sandals is expert at manicuring beautiful landscapes with exquisite waterfall-ed pool sanctuaries, intimate hammock-beds-for-2, and breathtaking candlelit outdoor dinner venues!

Ø Stay-at-1, Play-at-3! You enjoy full reciprocity between Sandal’s resorts, via their complimentary shuttle. On St Lucia and Jamaica, you can stay at any one Sandals properties, and dine, beach, golf, and party at any of the others, as much as you like.

To hear more about the Sandals properties or get a brochure, email Melanie @ Melanie@ToughLoveTravel.com!

Saturday, August 1, 2009

SQUEEZIN’ THE LAST DROPS OF SUMMER FUN!


Camp is done, and school’s still a month away. How will you squeeze the last fun out of this summer? Here’s how:

  • Find a festival!

Ballooning! July 26- August 1. http://www.balloonfestnj.com/

Music and Arts! August 14-16. http://www.skylands.org/

Chowder! October 3-4. http://www.chowderfest.com/

  • Visit Grounds For Sculpture! This 35-acre outdoor sculpture garden in Hamilton, NJ, inspired by Seward Johnson, is a great place to experience sculpture, meet resident artists, let the kids romp, and enjoy a cocktail and dinner at one of the on-site restaurants (The Gazebo is moderately priced and right on the lily pond… a gorgeous setting in the early evening. http://www.groundsforsculpture.org/dining.htm

  • Visit the Liberty Science Center! In Jersey City, the IMAX is featuring “Wild Oceans”, “Sea Monsters”, and Jane Goodall’s “Wild Chimpanzees”. http://www.lsc.org/lsc/visit/directions
  • Learn something! Pick something you’ve always wanted to try, and take a class:

Surfing! http://www.surfingshipbottom.com/

Pottery! http://www.cassellpottery.com/Lessons.htm

Cooking! http://www.westfieldtoday.com/classicthyme (they do 3-hour team-building cooking events! Perfect for a family!)

Kayaking! http://www.kayakeast.com

  • Make a day of it at the Shore! Check out Seaside Heights: http://www.discoverourtown.com/NJ/SeasideHeights/Shopping/121037.html You can visit the nature center at Island Beach State Park, picnic, stroll the boardwalk, and then play at the amusement park on the way home. Arrange a banana boat ride as a special surprise! (Island Beach Park fills up on hot days, so get there early!)
  • Go to Liberty State Park, ferry across to Manhattan, and Bike Tour! At Bike the Big Apple, they’ll set up custom tours for you, give you guides and bikes, and even help you to their starting point! http://bikethebigapple.com/calendar.html
  • Go to the Ballpark!

The Trenton Thunder http://www.trentonthunder.com/ or the Lakewood BlueClaws, by the shore http://www.blueclaws.com/ or even a pre- season Giants Football scrimmage, http://www.giantsfootballblog.com/category/2009-pre-season/

  • See how many different ethnic foods you can eat in one day/week! New Jersey is a wealth of ethnic boros, so map out a course and go for it!

Cuban food in Union City: http://www.havanarestaurant.net/

Portuguese food in Newark’s Ironbound section: http://offthebroiler.wordpress.com/2006/05/21/nj-dining-newarks-ironbound/

Italian: DeLorenzo’s Tomato Pies (Chambersburg) is a Winner! Only open Thursday – Sunday.

http://www.tripadvisor.com/Restaurant_Review-g46874-d485590-Reviews-De_Lorenzo_s_Tomato_Pies-Trenton_New_Jersey.html

Greek: Try Mythos, in Glen Rock. http://chowhound.chow.com/topics/639738

Irish in Kearny: They’re more than haggis! Argyle Fish& Chips.

http://newyork.seriouseats.com/2009/01/new-jersey-dispatch-robert-burns-day-haggis-argyle-stewarts-kearny.html

West Indian: Real Jamaican Jerk, in Somerset. http://www.realjamaicanjerk.com/

Amish: New serving location at Trenton’s Farmer’s Market! http://www.nj.com/mercer/index.ssf/2009/07/amish_set_up_shop_at_trenton_f.html

GET OUT AND MAKE SOME MEMORIES FOR SUMMER '09!