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Monday, September 28, 2009

DESTINATION WEDDINGS: What about Block Island?

Your Welcome reception could look like this: a Lobster Bake Shore Dinner!


Your Rehearsal Dinner could look like this: a sundowner sail on a 50' catamaran!


Your Vows on your big day could look like this: the historic home and lawn of the Sullivan House, overlooking the sea of masts on the Great Salt Pond, and the beaches of the Atlantic.


Your honeymoon night could look like this: a berth on your own sailboat

"on the hook" for complete honeymooning privacy!


There are other inspired destination wedding sites: Caribbean islands, cruise ships, and all kinds of outdoor parks and waterfronts. Check out the sidebars!

Along with Block Island, they all offer remarkable settings, unique cuisines, and exotic atmospheres.

Block Island, alone, though, offers convenience! Reached by 2-hour car (or Amtrak) from NYC and 1-hour ferry ride, Block Island offers the unique feature of an accessible, affordable, and comfortable destination, which is a wonderful feature to be able to offer your elderly, budgeted, or time-strapped guests.

You won't be skimping, though, on your destination wedding, on Block Island! It offers a range of lodging, from budget bunkrooms to gracious victorian guesthouses ...a host of fun from sailing to biking, sunrise kayaking to beach picnicking to gallery nights... and scrumptious foods from homemade custards to fresh-picked island berries to lobster every way, all day.

Tuesday, September 22, 2009

How to eat a Pigeon, Egyptian-Style

You can get Hamam (pigeon) butterflied and grilled, stuffed and baked, or in tagen with tomatoes and rice.

We tried other Egyptian favorites too-- falafels right out of the sidewalk skillet, 2-am snacks at the kebab stand on the corner, and delectably spicy lamb meatballs called koftas. Our favorite meal was the blackened fish, grilled before our eyes in Khan el-Khalili’s farmer’s market.

So it was an ironic coincidence that I tried that Egyptian household favorite, pigeon, in the manicured garden of westernized, 5* Hotel on Zamalek Island, in the heart of the ex-pat district, in the middle of the Nile.

Seated on the umbrella-ed patio, we were delighted to find this revered specialty on the menu. We had read about this local favorite, and had listened patiently for weeks now, to drooling dining tales of our fellow travelers. Now, just hours before our departure, we finally had our chance to try it. We sat making light conversation, enjoying our rare cocktail (liquor is all but prohibited in Cairo), but the whole time, I eyed the other tables, and momentarily wondered why no one – neither the affluent locals families nor the stylish European travelers – was seated before a plate of the Revered Pigeon. Smugly I thought, they just don’t know the good stuff!

And then, with a flourish of my charming Arabic waiter, my much-anticipated entrĂ©e arrived… and it looked more like a bat than lunch! Check it out:

I prodded it with my fork—seemed a bit like a tiny game hen. I smelled it - yummy. I examined its shape, with the barely recognizable head and beak grilled intact – no problem. And so, with undaunted zest, I dug in!

Forget game hens! It was more like eating a small lake trout, with tiny needles of bones in every forkful. I worked diligently but was never able to scrounge even a full bite. I snuck in forkfuls of rice, just to keep up the illusion of a normal meal.

Finally, I gave up. How could this possibly be a household staple? Everyone in Cairo would be emaciated!

Only one thing to do! I rolled up my sleeves and picked up the “leg”… recall Tom Hanks in the movie, “BIG”, eating the mini corncob, teeth razoring over the fine edges… that was my pigeon experience!

No worries… I kept working away at it, and soon had a matchstick-esque pile of bones on my plate. That’s when I noticed a pair of coifed and starched Egyptian businessmen at the next table, raising eyebrows and whispering to each other. Clearly, I had taken a social misstep…. Was it wrong to eat food with your hands in Cairo culture?

I tried to “clean up my act’, but finesse as I might, I rather messily – and hungrily – made my way to the bottom of the pigeon. I even sampled the tiny head and beak. Somewhere along the way, I recalled my father’s comments about the similarly slim rewards of “picking” Blue Crabs on the Chesapeake… well, he had no room to complain until he mastered this miniscule meal.

The waiter finally arrived at our table and asked about our meal. Did I feel elated, to have finally tasted the Revered Pigeon? Or was I just plain ornery from frustrated hunger? Clearly, I was shamed by my apparently uncouth table manners. I decided I could trust the waiter, so I confided the scorn of my whispering neighbors.

He literally roared with laughter.

They were not judging my etiquette… they were just wondering what the hell I was doing, picking around the bones. I was supposed to EAT the entire bird, bones and all!

Tuesday, September 8, 2009

HONEYMOONS WORTHY OF YOUR LOVE... Sailing the Nile in a Dahaybieh

If you haven’t thought of a honeymoon in Egypt, think again!

Romancing honeymooners will be in good company.

The corniche along the Nile-front is full of lovers… strolling arm-locked confidantes, whispering pairs on park benches, waterfront patios lined with tables-for-2.

There’s also a love-strewn history, world-famous sights, a unique cuisine, a vibrant rural life unchanged for centuries, an exhilarating urban culture – where else can you find camels on the streets of a capital city?

And the highlight… the life-giving Nile, splitting the Egyptian desert from south to north with a swath of fertile farmland.

You will ride camels, taxis, donkeys, overnight trains, planes, and caleshes (think horse-drawn hacks). But the highlight will be your sail up the Nile in a Dahaybieh.

These grand sailboats, restored from the 1800s, are fabled to be the choice transport of the pharoahs. They are run solely by wind, and their wide red-striped, lateen-rigged sails, on bow and stern, majestically catch the breeze and sweep the dahaybieh past reed islands, herds of water buffalo and riverside temples, up to Aswan. Their broad teak decks are surrounded by low-slung couches encircling silver trays (perfect for middle eastern-style dining), crowned with crystal chandeliers, and staffed by friendly locals who are as dedicated to your service as they are knowledgeable in Egyptology.

Our room had crisp white linens, and a sparkling ensuite bath, with huge casement windows that opened up, only inches from the rippling Nile.

As we meandered down the Nile, exploring the path of the ancient pharaohs and priests, we anchored, just steps away from the famous ruins from 3000 BC. Our days were a mix of lounging on deck with Lucy Duff’s Nile autobiography, and hiking into the desert to see deserted tombs, sugar cane crops, and remote villages. In the late afternoon, we took a dip in the Nile!

But our nights were spectacular… feasts of pigeon (see next week for “how to eat a Pigeon”), fresh fish and honeycake, followed by egyptian rhythms on the oud, and gazing at the powdered-sugar sky of stars.

We even watched the full moon rise over the Nile, FROM OUR BED!

Check out the Dahaybieh slideshow in the sidebar!

Tuesday, September 1, 2009

HONEYMOONS WORTHY OF YOUR LOVE... Mediterranean 'moon


The Mediterranean is home to an epic love affair: Odysseus and Penelope. You, too, can celebrate your love with a Mediterranean ‘moon.

In Greece, wander white-washed villages on desertscaped islands, scattered amid broad blue seas .

Swim in sparkling rocky bays out to sun-warmed rocks, and watch mariners mend their nets on colorful fishing dories, bobbing “on the hook”. Sunset on seawalls, at dinner tables laden with lobster and retsina.

Climb mountainsides on belled donkeys, and join village processions on an island wedding day… here in the Greek Isles.


In Italy, tour the fabled Amalfi coast in your vintage roadster.

Soak in infinity pools overlooking the wide, blue sea.

Meet tailors and antique dealers, potters and painters, and spend lazy afternoons at a local trattoria feast.

Explore the Amalfi trail of old trading days and check out the erotic pictographs in Pompeii. … all here on the Italian Mediterranean.



In Egypt, visit the “pearl” of the Mediterranean, Alexandria.

Home of another famous love pair, Cleopatra and her Anthony, you’ll see their temple, then underwater archeological surprises, mosques, tombs, the bibliotheque, a bustling harbor, a town of colonial architecture, and a Wonder of the Ancient World.

You can venture through the Nile delta, daytrip to Giza’s Great Pyramid of Cheops or Cairo’s Egyptian Museum, and even train further south for the treasures of Luxor and Aswan.

Check in next week for more honeymoon dreaming on Egypt’s famed Nile, romancing on a 19th century dahaybieh.